Your relationship deserves the same care you give the rest of your health.
Built for the two of you
What you know about yourselves matters.
So does what you haven’t been able to see yet.
A relationship coach, not just a coach.
Your Coach
Your Coach learns from what you share, notices patterns over time, and remembers what has helped before. Each of you talks to it privately. It can understand both sides of the relationship without showing either partner what the other has said.
Your Relationship Genome
Your Relationship Genome maps how the two of you feel, connect, handle differences, and build a life together across ten dimensions. It begins with a short intake, grows as you use Decode Love, and can include DNA if you choose.
A clearer sense of how you’re doing
Your first session gives you a Love Satisfaction Score based on a validated measure. As Decode Love gets to know your relationship, that score becomes the Decode Love Index, an ongoing view of how the two of you are doing and what may be changing.
See what makes your relationship yours.
Your Archetype Preview
An early read of the two of you, clearly marked as a starting point. It becomes more accurate as soon as your partner answers for themselves.
Your Couple Archetype
A fuller portrait of how your relationship works today, built from both of your answers and the patterns you create together.
Your DNA Perspective
You’ll see the natural tendencies each of you may have brought into the relationship alongside the relationship you’ve actually built. Comparing the two can offer a new perspective on how you’ve shaped one another over time.
A relationship isn’t one person plus another. It’s what happens between you.
See what matters, and know where to begin.
Something hard you can’t shake, or something good you want more of.
Your DNA may suggest a tendency. It never decides your future.
Your lived experience comes first.
What you tell us about yourselves and your relationship carries the most weight. Biology can add a small amount of context to selected tendencies, but it never leads the story.
DNA shows tendencies, not destinies.
A genetic result may point to a small inherited lean. It can’t tell us who you are, how you’ll act, or what your relationship will become. We give DNA only the weight the research supports.
The measures have to earn our trust.
We draw on large published studies and validated instruments, and we’re building Decode Love with behavioral geneticists and practicing clinical psychologists.
You tell us who you are.
We never guess your culture, heritage, or identity from DNA or ancestry. If it matters to your relationship, we ask. You decide what to share.
There are no compatibility verdicts.
Every one of our nine Couple Archetypes can describe a strong, thriving relationship. Your results will never tell you that your biology says you shouldn’t be together. They’re designed to help you understand what your particular combination makes possible.
Your relationship is personal. We treat it that way.
Your private words stay private.
Your partner never sees what you say to your Coach, and you never see what they say to theirs. Decode Love can understand both sides without exposing either person’s private conversations, answers, or notes.
Your data is not for sale.
Your conversations, answers, and DNA are used to give you your Decode Love experience. They are not sold, shared with data brokers, or used to train outside AI models.
Your DNA is protected.
It is encrypted, stored separately from your identity, and used only for your results. You can delete your DNA and the rest of your Decode Love data at any time.
No ads. No data brokers. No hidden customer.
We work for the couple using Decode Love.
A small team taking relationships as seriously as the rest of your health.
Mike Keriakos
Mike co-founded Everyday Health, a digital-health platform that grew to reach tens of millions of people each month, into a $500M IPO on the NYSE in 2014. He has spent two decades building consumer health and data products at scale.
Bo Peabody
Bo served as Chairman of Everyday Health through its growth and public offering. A seasoned investor and company builder with a track record of identifying and scaling category-defining digital health companies.
Interested in investing or partnering on research? hello@decodelove.com
About Decode Love
What is Decode Love?
Decode Love is an AI-powered relationship coach for couples, operated by DecodeLove, Inc. It uses information you and your partner share to help you explore relationship patterns, prepare for conversations, and find ways to reconnect. The service is intended for adults 18 and older.
How do I get started with Decode Love?
Start with 17 questions for an initial Love Satisfaction Score and Couple Archetype preview. Your partner can answer for themselves to add their perspective. Your answers and ongoing use give the Coach more context about your relationship.
What is the Relationship Genome?
The Relationship Genome is Decode Love’s map of how a couple feels, connects, handles differences, and builds a life together across ten dimensions. It begins with your answers and can include optional DNA context. The name does not mean that a DNA test is required.
Do I need a DNA test to use Decode Love?
No. DNA is optional. Decode Love begins with what you share about yourself and your relationship. If you separately activate genetic features, biology may add context to selected tendencies; it does not determine compatibility or predict your relationship’s future.
Is Decode Love a therapist or a replacement for couples therapy?
No. The Coach is an AI relationship-support tool, not a human therapist or healthcare provider. It does not provide diagnosis, treatment, or crisis support. It can make mistakes, and Decode Love does not promise that it will improve your relationship.
Can my partner see my Coach conversations?
Your partner does not automatically receive your individual Coach conversations or responses. Information may be shared if you choose to share it or the service clearly tells you before sharing. Authorized personnel may review selected interactions for safety, support, quality evaluation, and product improvement, as described in the Privacy Policy.
What does beta access include?
The beta is an early version of Decode Love, and features may change or be discontinued. Under the beta terms, eligible users who register during the announced enrollment period receive 12 months of beta access at no charge. No payment method is required, and access does not automatically convert to a paid subscription.
Who founded Decode Love?
Mike Keriakos founded Decode Love in New York in 2026. He previously co-founded Everyday Health. Bo Peabody is a board member. The company’s legal name is DecodeLove, Inc.