Are you ready to strengthen your relationship?

You track your sleep, your workouts, your finances. Decode Love measures what's underneath, your psychology and the biology behind it, together as a couple.

Get started with a quick 5 minute assessment.

A Couples Breakthrough

Married, partnered, engaged, or dating, the stage doesn't matter as long as you're both willing to actually show up for it. It's for two people who want a real answer about how they work, not just a reason to feel better for a day.

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Psychology + Genetics = LOVE

Couples apps look at the relationship and stop there. DNA services look at you, alone, never at what happens once you're paired with someone. Therapy goes deep, but usually only after something's already broken, one person at a time.

Nothing else looks at both together, before there's a problem to fix.

Where This Leads

You get a coach that actually knows your relationship, not generic advice it would give anyone. It knows your friction points and what's already working, and helps you act on both.

The tools around it work the same way, built from what you've told us, not a template. And it only gets sharper the longer you're both in it.

Find Out Your Love Type

The Process

Love Type Assessment

Answer for yourself, 20 questions, no one else sees it but you.

Invite your partner

Nothing about the two of you happens until they're in too.

Couples Archetype

What you look like together, built from both of you.

Enhance Your Relationship

Upload Your DNA

Optional, whenever you're ready. Adds to the picture and tailors the experience even further.

Relationship Coach

Not a final step, this is what the rest of it was building toward, and it keeps working as long as you do.

Ready? Let's find your Love Type.

Free to start, no credit card required. Private and just for you, we'll never share your answers.

Every Couple Has a Type

Find our your couple archetype after your partner joins.

  • The Grounded Pair

    Build safety first, steady, dependable, protected.

  • The Attuned Pair

    Turn toward each other, warmth, care, responsiveness.

  • The Explorer Pair

    Grow by going, novelty, appetite, shared adventure.

  • The Purposeful Pair

    Pointed at something, shared meaning and direction.

  • The Builder Pair

    Build a life, execution, ambition, getting it done.

  • The Spark Pair

    Run hot together, fight hard, love hard, repair fast.

  • The Balanced Pair

    Succeed together while staying yourselves, negotiated autonomy.

  • The Complementary Pair

    One is the gas, one the brakes, and it works.

  • The Magnetic Pair

    Opposites, and the difference generates real force.